Community Rules
The behavioural and safety standards every member, creator, organiser and club manager must follow.
Consent comes first
- No means no. Silence, a match, friendship, payment, prior intimacy or attendance at an adult venue is not ongoing consent.
- Never pressure, threaten, blackmail or repeatedly contact someone after they decline or block you.
- Do not record, screenshot for distribution, publish or share intimate/private material without the clear permission of every adult shown.
Strictly prohibited
- Any content, solicitation or sexualisation involving a person under 18 or appearing to be under 18.
- Non-consensual intimate imagery, hidden-camera material, coercion, trafficking, exploitation or threats to expose private content.
- Harassment, stalking, hate, credible threats, doxxing, impersonation, scams, fraud or attempts to obtain passwords/financial credentials.
- Illegal goods/services, weapons sales, controlled drugs, or arrangements that are unlawful in the relevant location.
- Posting another person’s address, workplace, phone number, identity documents or private contact information without permission.
Profiles and authenticity
Use accurate age, profile type and relationship information. Do not use another person’s image as your own. Couple profiles must accurately represent the people using the account. Verification badges must not be manipulated or misrepresented.
Messages, Hotlists and connections
Respect each member’s contact preferences. A Wink, Hotlist addition, friend connection or gift is an expression of interest only. Declined friend requests are subject to the platform cooldown. A full block prevents both members from viewing or contacting each other until the blocking member explicitly unblocks.
Meetings, clubs and events
Follow the organiser’s rules, venue policies, dress code and consent standards. Do not assume that event attendance implies sexual availability. Leave immediately if venue staff or an organiser lawfully asks you to leave.
Enforcement
Depending on severity and history, action may include warning, content removal, feature restriction, temporary suspension, permanent account closure, payment hold where relevant, or referral to appropriate authorities. Serious safety issues may result in immediate action without prior warning.